Jonathan David
Be Popular Now!
It was our greatest pleasure to be contacted by Jonathan and David to interview them! They are twin brothers who have taken this journey together to write this book. They are both teachers and enjoy helping others! It is with great pleasure that I introduce you to Jonathan and David!
1. What was the driving force that
started you and your brother David on the journey to write this book that would
help others?
We had both
gotten into some serious ruts around the time we hit thirty years old. And, we
both decided we had to break out. We began to research positive affirmations
and explored the science behind them. Then, we started thinking about what
really drove us as individuals, trying to find our core essence. We discovered
that our calling in life was really to bless others and make their lives
better. We did this by being attractive to them: making them laugh, listening
to them, meeting their needs, etc. And, being attractive to lots of people
is...popularity! Our lives completely changed. It was like an awakening (for
lack of a better term).
2. As far as the writing goes who does
what in the writing of the story? Are you two organized or do you write as you
go?
One of us typically does the actual writing of the entire
book. In the case of Be Popular, Jonathan was the primary writer. Yet, we both
give creative input, feedback, and help with editing. We share the credit
because we came up with the foundational ideas as a team anyway.
3. How much time and research was spent
in the writing of this book?
We spent around two years researching the techniques in the
book. Basically, we looked at the scientific theory behind attraction, mainly
by studying evolutionary biology and brain science. Yes, attraction is actually
grounded in science! While humans “being human” can always throw a wrench in
any conventional system, we feel our research has allowed us to speak in
generalities about what men and women find attractive. It also allows us to
help those who aren’t coming across as attractive, but who want to meet
somebody special.
4. Who is your favorite author and how did
they inspire you to write?
David and I (Jonathan) really like David Hawkins and Richard
Bandler. They aren’t the most mainstream, but they both taught me some major
lessons. Hawkins in his book “Power Vs. Force” really helped me discover what
constituted the genuine power of individuals like Mother Teresa, what helped
them change the world. Bandler, the co-founder of neuro-linguistic programming
(NLP), taught me a lot about words and how to influence others. Popularity is
ultimately about influence using words.
5. It’s easy to see that you have a
passion for writing but is there any part of it you don’t like?
We both enjoy writing when we’re in the flow with good ideas and helpful
stories. However, there are times when it just seems difficult to express what
is really in our heads. That can be frustrating. Usually it works itself out
because of our teamwork: we discuss it and find a solution.
6. Do you make time to read and if you
do what are you reading right now?
Reading is very important to us and, in spite of being very busy, we
still read frequently. We’re both reading Hermann Hesse’s Steppenwolf and
Siddhartha right now. Those are some amazing books. They’re not just
entertaining, but life changing. Hesse, we believe, really “gets” the nature of
life.
7. How did you come up with the idea to
write this book? Is there personal life
experience in the writing?
Since we had our “awakening” a few years ago, we realized how much more
fun and amazing life had become. And, we’d spread this joy to the world. We’d
literally walk into a coffee shop for five minutes and leave with two new
friends. We were making people laugh and creating a sense of fun and meaning
wherever we went. We had such fun, we believed we needed to share these tips
with the world, so that every guy could benefit. We believe these tips make men
better, which, in turn, makes those around them better: wife, kids, friends,
community, and culture.
8. Your book has been published with Theta Hill Press, a company you and David started, and is
available on Amazon; Does this mean you see the publishing industry
headed this way?
We decided to start our own publishing company for a couple
of reasons. First, we knew that in the current climate, first time writers
pretty much do their own promotion, but still make a small cut of the profits.
We figured we might as well do all the work and make more of the cut. Plus, we
wanted to have some control. We started a publishing company because we are
already business partners and think in those terms. So, we saw it as the
logical step.
I don’t necessarily think the industry is heading in this
direction, but I think it would be a good thing if it did. There are a lot of
great books that would never have made it to print if not for self-publishing.
It’s great those stories and ideas have made it to the world. Amazon has
democratized the publishing process. While that’s led to a lot of bad books,
it’s also led to some gems that never would’ve seen the light of day at a
traditional publisher.
9. Do you have any online sites where
others can read more of your writings?
Our main sites are http://thepopularman.com/and http://thepopularteen.com/
and they are great examples of our writing.
10.Do you have any more stories in the
works? What kinds of stories do you plan to write next?
We are releasing a teen popularity book around June. It’s
focused on helping young people with confidence. As teachers, we both saw the
dynamics of popularity, success (or lack of it), and bullying. We hope to help
teens gain confidence, stand up to bullies, and lay a foundation for adult
success. We think our book will be the answer to the problems of frustrated
teens and their equally frustrated parents. We are also in the early stages of
producing a book specifically focused on romantic attraction, dating, and
relationships; David is working as the primary author on that one.
11.Who would be your first choice to play
narrator of your book if it were ever to become a documentary?
I (Jonathan) think Morgan Freeman. I like him as an actor and I think he
has the perfect voice.
12.If you could meet anyone from any
time who would it be and what would be your first question?
I (Jonathan) would love to meet Alexander the Great, the
young man who conquered most of his known world by the age of 33. I would hope
to pick his brain to learn about charisma and leadership.